Welcome and thanks for Showing up!

By being here, you've already embarked on a journey of transformation. If you’re feeling stuck, scared, or confused, it's essential to recognize that your dreams and goals are well within your grasp. As your coach and partner, I provide tailored strategies to support, challenge, and guide you towards achieving those goals. The future version of you awaits! Ready to kickstart this journey?

Then it’s time to…

SAY YES TO SUCCESS!

  • "CHANGE IS HARD AT FIRST, MESSY IN THE MIDDLE AND GORGEOUS AT THE END"

COACHING IS MY CALLING

Drawing from my personal experience and professional training, I'm committed to sharing valuable insights to help you to achieve your goals and embrace the life you deserve. As an insulin-dependent diabetic, I've faced health challenges, anxiety, and weight loss struggles. In addition, overcoming a painful divorce while navigating single motherhood, and a demanding career have all been part of my journey.

As a coach, with a focus on relationship transitions, I concentrate on strengthening ones relationship to self and others. Whether it’s coaching singles looking for a partner, couples facing relationship challenges, conflict with family members, or navigating the difficult road of divorce, I aim to build your interpersonal skills and stimulate personal growth to achieve conflict resolution and compassionate communication. I will guide you as we dig into your behavioral patterns and inspire a step-by-step action plan to reach your goals.

Having spent many years on a journey of self discovery, I finally learned to prioritize myself without guilt. In doing so, I am living in alignment with my truest self which has opened up new possibilities for me. I've found fulfillment in a career that I love and have the relationship I once could only dream of but never thought possible. . My passion lies in sharing these invaluable lessons with you. Let’s work together to create long lasting change and the confidence to create the life you want!

ABOUT ME

My unique experience stems from thousands of hours observing, conversing with, and delving into reality on a different level. Although I graduated with a dual major in Communications and Psychology, my unexpected journey led me to produce reality TV, . 

My interest in human behavior began with my first job at a daytime talk show. Every day,  I met people from across the country who wanted to get help with various relationship issues. These people were so desperate that they were willing to go on  national television not only for the free therapy provided by the show, but mostly just to feel validated and heard. In that moment, I recognized how alone people felt and how critical support is. 

I then moved on to produce the series 'A Baby Story,' where I was invited to witness the miracle of childbirth along with the intimate and vulnerable moments between couples.  In the months that followed, I was privy to challenges causing a relationship shift between couples post baby.

Then came 'Say Yes to the Dress,' (The inspiration for my tagline) where I witnessed the highs and lows between brides and their families.  The palpable anxiety, stress, unrealistic expectations and fears caused so much conflict during what was supposed to be a monumental time.

What struck me was that brides could vividly describe their dream dress but often struggled with detailing their partner. This sparked a deep curiosity in me. What happened to these couples after they said "I Do?’ Upon reconnecting with many of the brides, I uncovered a shocking truth—many couples became separated or divorced within the first two years of marriage. This revelation hit close to home, as my own marriage  ended in a painful divorce more than 10 years after saying ‘I do.’

Now, drawing from my unique background, I assist others in navigating relationship challenges, from premarital counseling to addressing conflict and separation. I believe in fostering strong foundations for lasting marriages and embrace the idea that divorce isn't a failure but a courageous step towards self-fulfillment and authenticity. 

  • "THE ONLY THING STANDING BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR GOALS ARE YOUR BELIEFS. YOU BECOME WHAT YOU BELIEVE"

MY UNIQUE COACH APPROACH:   

I'm not here to sell you the typical coaching program. I know what you want because I’ve been there myself.  What you’re investing in is a specific Goal + Result.  Our partnership begins with identifying the goal and what’s getting in the way of achieving it.  Together, we design a strategic plan with SMART goals (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely).  My greatest success is when a client no longer needs me - this is when I know we have achieved the desired outcome and our work is complete.

My coaching style does NOT require both parties to be involved.  In fact, I find it more effective to work one on one.

99% of the time, one partner wants help to change the dynamic more than the other.  The old therapy model would have you begging your partner to see a couples therapist in order for change to be made.  Not anymore!  

My approach is designed for you to learn the skills to bring to the relationship for immediate change.  When this happens, your partner usually gets inspired and wants to collaborate with you to grow together.

What will we accomplish TOGETHER?

-Quickly uncover your goal(s) and what’s blocking you.

-Through a research based approach I will provide you with proven techniques and tools to meet your specific goals

-Stress management: Equipping you with stress management tool for a harmonious relationship

-Understand and uncover your unique triggers and needs by understanding your ‘attachment style’

-Communication mastery: Enhancing skills like active listening, reflective questioning and compassion

-Improve intimacy through a series of techniques and enhanced communications.

  • "IN THE MIDDLE OF GREAT DIFFICULTY LIES UNLIMITED OPPORTUNITY"

Services

  • Premarital Coaching

  • Newlywed Coaching

  • Separation & Divorce Support

  • Stress Management

  • "LIFE SHRINKS OR EXPANDS IN PROPORTION TO ONES COURAGE"

TESTIMONIALS

  • Coaching with Nikki was a great experience. Her insightful questions led me to my own realizations. Nikki believed in me and my ability to transform even more than I did. That consistent support and encouragement is what allowed me to reach my goals. Just knowing that I had someone in my corner gave me the confidence I needed to succeed. Nikki genuinely wants her clients to thrive.

    -Ellen R

  • Nikki has such a warm and engaging approach she immediately made me feel comfortable. Her desire to understand me was empowering and allowed me to easily open up to her while feeling validated. Nikki is great with creative problem solving and customizing strategies to achieve short term goals which build to the goal at large. I have already seen improvements in my relationship after only 4 sessions. I highly recommend Nikki if you want a no nonsense approach with swift results.

    -Laura D.

  • Nikki truly helped me to turn my focus from people pleasing to ME pleasing. While at first I was totally out of my comfort zone, Nikki’s consistent support and accountability kept me on track. Helping me to identify patterns and beliefs that are outdated, Nikki provided me with the insight and encouragement to release those beliefs, and fears making room for new opportunities. I am so grateful for my time with Nikki.

    -Cynthia P.

  • Nikki is empathetic but also no- nonsense. Her tough questions and compassionate guidance empowered me to uncover my strengths and identify areas for personal growth during a challenging period. Through visualization exercises, she uncovered obstacles and helped me eliminate them working toward the results I sought. Nikki’s action plans and accountability methods demonstrated her commitment to my success.

    -Erik R.

Contact ME

coachnikkitaub@gmail.com